Monday, December 26, 2011

15 Commandments & Resolutions for a Rich Life


#1) I will say yes to more things that feel good and ignore negative things, people, situations and places that make me feel like shit.

#2) I will hang out more with people that I want to become like and avoid like radioactive camel dung, those who don’t have the same intention as I do.

#3) I will read more, and take even greater amount of time for self development to become wiser and less of a wiseass.

#4) I will love the people in my life like crazy, listen to them and understand their feelings, as if I am their shrink and was being paid a million dollars to do that.

#5) I will earn/attract more money this year than ever because I can do it, I am awesome and I love BMF (Blowin’ Money Fast).

#6) I will put the things I know to practice because knowledge that is not applied is as useful as a rusty old lock without a key.

#7) I will follow my intuition and feelings more because other people lie all the time but my heart on the left is always right.

#8) I will celebrate more and worry less, knowing fully that the Universe has its eyes on me like Bigg Boss and I am Sunny Leone.

#9) I will give more money, love, attention, time, care and energy to charities, animals and people who need what I have to give because I am a human being and I am humane.

#10) I will be even more open and allowing of miracles to happen in my life and I will avoid self sabotage as much as I can realize the times when I am digging my own grave.  

#11) I will keep my surroundings neat and clean, as orderly and up to date as possible because my outside world is a reflection of what’s going on in my mind, and last year, it was completely f’ed up.

#12) I will cry as softly as possible and laugh as loudly as I can.

#13) I will ‘invest’ more quiet time being alone rather than spend it on meaningless gossip, bitching or trash talking.

#14) I will dream with my eyes wide open and when I am sleeping, I will sleep like a baby and when I am awake, I will live my day like a lion/lioness.

#15) I will be grateful for what I have instead of asking God for more because when I appreciate what I have, that’s how I manifest more good  in my life.

P.S: A very merry X-Mas and a Happy New Year to you and your family. I love you.

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Saturday, December 10, 2011

Why does this always happen to me? Self sabotage and why your life is always fucked up!



“If you cannot be your own best friend, you are bound to become your worst enemy.” –Ankush Modawal

History repeats itself if we don’t learn from the mistakes we have suffered from in our past. Time and again, in my life I used to observe a pattern.

Things repeated themselves in form of bad luck or ill-fate, or when my time was ‘good,’ a string of events would happen that would unfold fortunate circumstances for me.

Victory or defeat always happens in streaks and I used to wonder about this phenomenon a lot. Also, at some point of time or not, even after years, I would find myself in the same situation where I had been before.

Month after month, in spite of trying and working my ass off towards what I wanted, I was still stuck at the same spot I had started at.

Or maybe in some more horrible instances, I was given the ‘illusion’ of moving forward. But Karma is a bitch and this thing called good luck in my life was as elusive of me as a fart in a storm! It seemed to me as if happiness came at a price, I was happy for some time and then something happened that just messed everything up again! There was a lot of back and forth emotional activity, but I wasn’t getting anywhere in my life, I was stuck.

But until I discovered the root cause of all my miseries, this life still gave me a lot of ‘tough love’ and I was FORCED by the hand of destiny to change my life.

If you have been in a relationship and if you have had your heart broken, you would find that in a very short period of time, you find yourself in a similar kind of situation where your heart will be broken again!

If your financial situation is screwed up right now, chances are they have always been screwed up, or at least for the most part of your life. This wasn’t the first month you just got by through your expenses for this month, it has been like that for every month.

I always used to point a finger at other people and blamed them for everything ‘bad’ that happened in my life. Until the day I had to swallow a very bitter pill, I realized that I should’ve been pointing a finger at myself all along. Every time something bad happened, I was the 1st person, so I must be a suspect in my crimes!

Here are the Top 5 ways people shoot themselves in the foot:

#1: Ignoring your intuition: The number one reason for self sabotage is ignoring what you know within your heart. The heart on the left is always right. People might lie or tell you what you want to hear but base all your decisions on the way you feel. If you have a strong and developed intuition, you would be able to read into a person’s words no matter what they tell you. Although it sucks when people who you care about lie, even if they do, you would know.

#2: Having the wrong people: The 2nd most important and top reason for your life to be completely fucked up is associating, hanging out or even maintaining contact with the wrong people. In my opinion, this has been the top reason in my life and in the life of others. Consciousness is ever flowing and when you exchange words, you exchange more than just ideas. If you have come across a lot of people who held the wrong intentions for you, believe me or not, you will be screwed. I was too and it’s not a good feeling.

#3: Losing out on good people: Don’t just think that you are right at all times. There are people who hold good intentions for you as well. You might have been a pain in the ass to live with and yet, someone who might have loved you a lot must’ve stuck by your side no matter the emotional pain you have caused them. But there might come a time when they will just give up, move on and let you be your own worst enemy. Again, if you believe yourself to be a righteous, pompous and selfish bitch/bastard, think again before you lose out on the people who care about you the most.  

“When you are headed on the wrong path you just cannot have the right people travel with you because they would have tried to stop you right where you started.” –Ankush Modawal

#4: Not taking the signs of the Universe: What is life trying to tell you? Have you been postponing a decision that you have been wanting to take for long? What are you being guided towards and are still not going there?

#5: Not reading my books: LOL, just kiddin’ but at some levels I am serious. Alright, here is the real number 5th reason. You know what the greatest challenge for me has been?

“The greatest challenge for me has been to try and help people who didn’t want to help themselves.” –Ankush Modawal

#5: Waiting until the last moment until the pain becomes unbearable: In my life, I have come across and interacted with thousands of people. From my experience, I have come to the conclusion that unless people hit rock bottom and come to a point in life where their pain is too great to handle, they won’t do shit about how they live. Most wait until the very last minute to do what they should’ve done a long time before. Some people just contact me as if I am some sort of an agony aunt!

They write really loooooong mails to me bitching about the unfairness of life and how they find themselves in the same situations again and again. I am humble to all of them and tell them the 3 magical words that make everyone’s life so wonderful, “Read my books!”

And on the other hand, there are really smart people who don’t even need to read my books and guess what, they hang onto every word I say, are the first ones to order my books as soon as I release them and make an honest effort to stay updated as to whatever is happening in my life. 

I even tell them on their face that they don’t need to read my books, they know so much already! And they tell me the minute we think of ourselves as know it alls, we are as good as dead!

WOW! This is the kind of stuff that inspires me to write every day. To share my daily discoveries with as many people I can.

The paradox of life prevails, those who need to read my books the most read the least and the people who need to read my books the least read them the most. Let me tell you one thing, if you are reading my words, there is definitely a message here for you. Whatever that message is, only you can figure it out.

“It’s not in my nature to judge people, in my opinion, people judge themselves on the basis of the perception they think others hold of them.” –Ankush Modawal

I have just shared a few ideas and a bit of my experiences with you here. I cannot force you to do the right thing or make decisions for you, I am just your well-wisher hoping you would do the best for yourself and separate yourself from the herd mentality.

“You are the only one who can set yourself free.” –Ankush Modawal


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