"You don't find a soul mate until you become one yourself." -Ankush Modawal
So, it’s
that time of the year again when the love bug seems to have given hickeys to
everyone!
If you find
yourself alone and want a really kickass partner in crime, you are not the only
one.
Valentine’s
day seems to put pressure on single and committed people alike to perform and really go out on that
date for a ‘date.’
“Every
great friend you have right now was once just a stranger to you.” –Ankush Modawal
But whether
you are looking for a serious relationship, or to just have fun or just go out
and make new friends, or even just want to remain single and enjoy your
freedom, Feng Shui is really going to help.
1) Be honest with yourself:
We all are at different places in our lives. Some are ready
to take the responsibility of a full blown relationship while some might not be. Be honest with yourself and ask, what do you really want for yourself
in this phase of your life? The answer might shock you because if you are like
most people who makes his/her decisions under peer pressure, you would be
amazed at what you really want versus what you think you want.
2) Fling, burn or give:
If this is not your first time in a relationship, you might have
baggage and ‘stuff’ left from a previous relationship. I can’t tell you how
important it is for you to get rid of things that you might have accumulated from
your past. Let them go, fling them out of your window, incinerate them or just
donate them. Make room for what you want.
3) The morning after:
This exercise can be done while lying down in your bed or in the
morning when you just wake up. Imagine that your perfect partner/date is sleeping
right next to you. What kind of a feeling would you that make you feel? Don’t focus
or think that you can have it or not, don’t let doubt creep up on you and just
really FEEL what you would like to feel if he/she was lying next to you. How
would they smell, how fuzzy, secure or turned on will you feel? Paint all the
details in your mind and use all your senses.
4) Your love corner:
The South West corner of your home is the part that determines
your relationships. Make sure you find out using a compass which direction this
is and keep this area as clean and well lit as possible. If you have a bathroom
or this area is missing from your floor map, it’s a good idea to consult a Feng
Shui Practitioner about it.
5) Prepare for it:
Whatever relationship you want with your partner, prepare for it
accordingly. Design everything till the very last detail as to the kind of
life/time you want with them. Remember, you are causing the Universe to work
for you when you make room for what you want to manifest in your life.
6) Be open to change:
Don't be like others who forget the last and the most important step. Let this be a final reminder to you. Become the type of person yourself who your partner would want
to be with. What have you been putting off or procrastinating for so long?
"Nothing changes until you do." -Ankush Modawal
P.S: You
might have noticed that I just included the basic points and didn’t go into
detail with Feng Shui. That’s because little knowledge is dangerous and when
working with the 5 elements (Water, Wood, Fire, Earth and Metal) of Feng Shui, it’s
best to consult a Feng Shui Practitioner and get him to visit your home. There
are a lot of variable like shapes, colors, floor plans etc. that need to be consulted
before giving solid advice to anyone.
P.P.S: If
you liked the short blog entry above, make sure you read the Black Book One and
Black Book II for a detailed description on energy work. Remember, energy is everything. It's just a matter of what you are tuning into.
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