Becoming Irresistibly Attractive

Have you known people with whom you feel absolutely awesome no matter how down you had been feeling before being in their presence? Do you know a person you are always attracted to for some unknown reason that you can't put in words? What's their secret that you can't stop thinking about them?

The one thing I have always done right with the people in my life is that I have always given them the benefit of the doubt. I have always seen everyone around me and have expressed more faith in them than they had in themselves.

I was asked recently about how someone can become an energy worker and how to read the signs that the Universe gives us in everyday life.

“How do I become an energy worker? How do I learn more about these things and become like you?”

I replied, “You don’t choose this work, it chooses you.”

“Over the past few years I have delved down into the study of consciousness and how this Universe works, I have come to the conclusion that we live in a world which is run by a very intelligent and loving presence. Some might call it God, Allah, Jesus, but as Shakespeare said, what’s in a name?” –Ankush Modawal ;D

But on a more serious note, it really doesn’t matter what you call this intelligent and compassionate power. Just know that it is there. More importantly, we are all a part of this power.

In these times where there are so many negative things happening all around us, people have lost faith in life and thus have forgotten as to how to stay connected to their power.

There are countless people who are starving for a better life than they are living. They need love, care, affection, attention, encouragement and all the other things that holds our very soul together.

I am truly grateful to have friends all over the world. They are people who appreciate my presence, whether I am physically present with them or not. In fact, I have realized that since every day, as the number of people who I help out with my writings increases, I am able to devote lesser time to each and every one of them individually.

“Every great friend that you have right now was once a stranger to you.” –Ankush Modawal

I feel a bit guilty but I am also aware of the purpose of my life and what I want to see manifested in my world.

It was not always like this. I started with absolutely nothing and I had a very limited friends circle. But I have been able to attract and keep awesome people in my life just because of this one single reason.

So I am going to let you in on a secret as to how you can become irresistibly attractive to others. And like most of the secrets of life, this one too is very simple.

See everyone that you meet as they would want to become and with more good things than they have.

That’s it. Like all of life’s secrets, this one too is simple, but not easy.

If you see someone who is sad, imagine how they would be like when they are really happy. If you see someone who is having financial difficulties, imagine them as prosperous. If you see someone who is having a hard time, imagine how they would be in the good times.

If you start doing this, you will be amazed with the results you will experience. People will become comfortable around you. They will feel good in your presence and they will intuitively know that you are their well wisher.

There are 2 downsides to this however:

1. Everyone you see positively will start loving you more and would want you to hang out with them more often. You might not be able to give them each time individually as they would always want to be around you, so you might feel guilty.

2. The people, who you consider as friends, if they are really not that, will just disappear from your life. They will not be a vibrational match to you anymore and they will not be able to live their rackets with you unless they tell you the truth or become highly agitated in your presence.

In closing, I would like to say that there is a difference between nice people and even nicer people. Nice people see you as nice if you are nice to them. The even nicer people know that you can be much better even when you are not. So I hope you remember my words.

"All your friends might not even be your well wishers and all your well wishers might not even be your friends." -Ankush Modawal

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Fighting Negativity

“Fighting negativity with hate is like trying to put out a fire with petrol.” –Ankush Modawal

Alright, so it’s true. We have more information bombarding our brains, more decisions to be made in even lesser time and more people are after you for something or the other than ever before. The things in the to-do list just keep piling up.

The normal ways of life just produce stress and at the end of the day, you find yourself saying, “I just hate everything.”

Everyone has had those kinds of days.

The Universe works in mysterious ways, but only until you don’t understand how it works. If you have read my Black Books, you would know what I mean here.

Recently, I had that kind of a day in which everything seemed haywire. Everything I did was just not working out. I was stressed and suddenly realized how much work I had actually accomplished and more importantly, how much more there was to be done. It was not a nice feeling to have.

I had so much work to do that day, how would I ever do it? Then I caught myself worrying from my ego state. I said to myself, I know better than this.

“You fight negativity by not fighting it.” –Ankush Modawal

The next thing I did would come as a shock to you. Even though I had so much work to do on that day, I just went to my bedroom and slept for a good portion of the day.

When I woke up, I felt better and rejuvenated. Also, to my own surprise, when I started going through the work I had to do, I found out that the issues I had to solve were already attended to. The work I had to do, somebody else had already done it for me. Whatever little work I had left, I was now more than eager to finish it and found a renewed energy to do that within me.

Everything changes when you shift your state. Everything!

Let’s face it; we are not smarter than God. When you stop struggling, working hard or trying to control everything, the Universe rearranges everything for your highest good. Just like if you get a cut on your skin, it heals itself.

When you are happy, you are attracting everything that you want in your life to come to you. Happiness is the signal your soul gives you as a confirmation that the Universe is conspiring to deliver to you whatever you want.

But when you are flustered, cranky, frustrated, the only energy you can attract from people, circumstances and life in general is that of what you feel.

If you are happy, you will repel sad, angry, frustrated people. They would just hate being with you because they will actually feel the need to stay as far away from you.

Think about it, if you are sad, angry or frustrated, or just generally in a negative mood, the only people, circumstances and situations in life you are going to come across are sad, angry or frustrated ones.

Life mirrors your feelings. So, ask yourself, what is the best thought you can think right now to feel better? What are the good qualities in people around you? What do you have in life that you are grateful for?

Remember, health, money, relationships, peace, success, are all vibrations. They are all states of being. It does not matter what the world is doing. What matters is what you are doing within the world of your mind.

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Leave Him Alone - What every woman should know about her guy

“You care for a guy by not caring for him!” –Ankush Modawal

If you are a girl and have a guy in your life, leave him alone! Contrary to what you might think, if you leave a guy alone while he is working or working out his emotional issues, he will absolutely love and respect you for that.

When a girl is going through a rough phase in her life, she needs someone she can talk her feelings to. Guys don’t usually do that. The mind of a man and that of a woman are differently wired and thus, work more differently than you might think.

So when your guy tells you that he has something on his mind or seems irritated, angry or negative, leave him alone. This is because men think alone in silence.

The biggest mistake a girl can do while a man is working on something is to call him incessantly or start a long chat with him on SMS/messages. Ladies, it will drive your man crazy and though he might reply every time and pickup your calls because he genuinely cares for you, he will not be the same.

Girls on the other hand want emotional support when they are sad or are working on something. So if she is doing something, your girl would expect you to be there for her every second of your being. That’s because your physical or emotional proximity matters to her.

However, when girls assume that what they need must be the same thing that their guy needs, they start ‘caring’ for him and that’s when he starts getting pissed off!

There is no one to be blamed because when a guy is having a hard time, he needs to be alone. So when he sees his girl being upset, mad or just ‘acting up,’ he leaves her alone to sort out her issues because that is what he thinks is best for her, and because he does the same and is cool with it.

The girl however feels abandoned and retreats into cold silence for a long time. She doesn’t call, she doesn’t text and she doesn’t initiate any kind of contact. The guy is happy and thinks that it’s a good thing that she is getting time to think, big mistake man! When you call her, she is going to blame you for leaving her alone when she needed your ‘care.’ The guy is gonna be confused out of his wits and say, “Man, I just don’t get what these chicks want!”

So ladies, the next time when you guy is working or is going through an emotionally testing time, just leave him alone. Give him the permission and the approval of silent support. Tell him that you love him and are there for him whenever he needs you, but don’t call him or ask him too many questions just because you care. Leave him SMS's occasionally telling him how much you care, love him and respect him for his work, he will never let you down. If you can do this successfully, he will truly love you with everything he has got!

If you call him 10 times in a day just to tell him that you bought cute little yellow sandals which have pink polka dotted ribbons on them, or that your best friend said something to your other best friend, or just to tell him about your day because you don’t want him to miss out on anything, the truth is, that HE WANTS TO MISS OUT ON THIS KIND OF STUFF!

Men are simple creatures and derive happiness from doing simple things. Let him polish his car, let him hangout with his friends, let him be alone, just let him be.

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Forgiveness - A true story

This is a true story of a girl who once was my friend. We were talking over the phone and she was telling me about her mother who had died when she was about 16 years old.

She started telling me about her and after a while, choked up and started crying.

She told me, “You know, till date I keep my ammi’s photo besides my bed. Do you know why?”

“Because you miss her?” I asked.

“Yes, I do. But the main reason is because I have a regret. When she was on her deathbed and taking her last breaths, she gestured to me with her hand with whatever little strength she had for me to come closer.”

“I was too angry at her because of some stupid fight we had 2 weeks ago. I shouted at her instead. She cried and reached out to my hand as much as she could, desperately, but I didn’t even let her touch me.”

“In a few minutes, she closed her eyes forever.”

“No matter how much I cried since that moment onward, no matter how much I hugged her, I couldn’t touch her. I regret that I could not forgive her at the right time, I regret that I could not touch her the one last time. I could not tell her how much I loved her.”

People think I am perfect. That’s logical right? I mean an author who talks so positively about empowerment, about spirituality and all. The truth is, I am not. In fact, I have done some really terrible things in my life that till this day, I wish I could take them back.

I too have been blinded by anger, rage and almost every negative emotion that almost everyone else goes through.

Each and every instance has taught me to become more loving, more tolerant of others and the most important lesson, to forgive.

It’s true, hurt people, hurt people. If you are reading this, ask yourself, who do you need to forgive in your life? You wouldn’t have to look too far in your mind.

Forgive them. Forgive them for what they could not be for you, for what they were never able to give to you, forgive them for being human and having their fair share of faults.

There is truly a lot of healing power in forgiveness. Remember, it is only the strong of heart who can forgive. Forgive yourself and others because if you are looking for the guilty, you would just have to look in the mirror.

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Using Negativity Positively

"The problem with this wonderful vibrational Universe we live in is that we get what we look for." -Ankush Modawal

Not just at one point of my life, I have had the very strong desire to stop living. When the negativity inside you breeds like an unchecked weed, you know that you are headed steadily in the direction of trouble.

There have been countless times in my life when everything seems to be working out for me on the outside but I was dying inside. So what did I do?

You cannot fight negativity with negativity, it will multiply itself. You have to ignore what you don't want and focus on what you DO want.

Not many have been able to master this simple technique but this is the only technique that works when dealing with anything.

The most important thing in this life for you to do is to figure out what you want in it. You have to find what you are looking for.

Since childhood, I have faced a lot of negative issues and each time I did, I became very clear as to what I did want to have in my life. Since, I figured out most of all this stuff myself and writing was my passion, I began to write about uplifting others and how they can achieve success in their lives.

I became a very successful author ONLY BECAUSE of facing negativity and learning from it what I truly wanted in my life.

Now, whatever negativity you are facing, look at it very dispassionately and realize that whatever negative situation that has manifested in your life, you want the opposite of that. Here are some of examples:

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My life has been full of struggles.
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I can relate well to those who are struggling with their lives and can help them better because I understand how they feel.

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I have never been financially very successful.
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I have come to know the value of money so that when I became successful, I knew it's value.

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I have been cheated on in my relationships.
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The people who cheated on me showed me the error of my ways and I got to learn a lesson from them.

There is a positive seed in every negative situation. So sit down someplace peacefully, get a notepad and a pencil and sort out your emotions by using the above technique of using negativity positively.

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Crushed

When I was a teenager I had a massive crush on a girl I knew. She was absolutely gorgeous and had a very sweet feminine energy about her. Even though I was what others called a pretty ‘awesome cool dude,’ little did they know that I was plagued by self doubt and self esteem issues.

Regardless to say, I kept my emotions to myself even though some of my friends tried to coax me into disclosing my feelings to her.

How could I? I was so nervous when she was around and she too never seemed too interested in me.

Time passed and I forgot about her.

After a couple of years, I was at a local supermarket when I bumped into a friend of hers. We exchanged pleasantries and then I asked her about the girl I had a crush on.

“How is she and what’s she up to these days?”

“Oh, she just got engaged!”

“Cool,” I replied trying to appear distant.

“You know, back when we were in school, she had a massive crush on you?”

“REALLY,” my eyes must’ve popped out in disbelief as it came out much louder than I expected it to.

“Yeah, she replied plainly, “I thought you already knew.”

“Huh, how would I know? How could I possibly know,” I complained feeling an uncomfortable feeling of regret creeping over me.

“Everybody knew about it! She was crazy about you, she wrote poems for you in the back of her school registers. She never had the courage to come and speak to you because she was too shy and nervous. She loved you! How could you not knowww,” she joked lightheartedly.

“But I just didn’t,” I replied weakly.

“Alright, gotta run now! Give me a call sometime and we’ll catch up,” she told me as she hurried out of the shop with her grocery bags.

I stood there, not knowing how to feel, I was crushed. The person who I loved had all the while loved me back. But none of us approached either one of us just because we thought that the other was not interested.

All this while, I lived in my perception that I was not deserving, not good enough, she would not be into me and other self imposed limitations.

I never knew that I was always the chosen one.

This happened about 7 years ago. I learned a very important lesson that day, which I still remember to this day. If you found it in my words, apply it in your life.

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