How life works: Change your thoughts, change your life

Someone asked me a very profound question, "what is life?"

I asked myself that and then my intuition answered, "life is a mirror that reflects our deepest thoughts."

What we experience in our lives is our deepest thoughts, intentions, emotions, fears, insecurities, compassion and visions. Every person who lives is different on a cellular level because we are extensions of an infinite mind. Since it's infinite, that's why neither two human beings nor their finger prints are alike.

We all have the power to accept an idea or reject it in our mind, but whatever we accept, whether it's an idea of what we want or a detailed picture of what we don't want, that idea plays out in our reality.

Imagine you've typed 'life sucks,' on your computer screen and take one printout. 

What do you think will be printed on it? If you guessed, 'life sucks,' then you are a genius! 

But you didn't want that right? I hope you didn't. 

You wanted, 'life's awesome.' 

So you tear that page up and try again, hoping that this time it would be different, this time you take a 100 printouts, and guess what? They're all the same and say, 'life sucks.'

But then you see others and their life's awesome. Confused, you scratch your head and convince yourself, they must be the lucky ones.

But that's not the case. 

Our problems start when we try to change the printed pages that keep popping out of the printer but when they don't, we accept in our minds that this is how reality is supposed to be. Without changing the cause of our 'failure,' we accept defeat and that too wrongly. 

In reality, there was no failure because what was inside the computer is exactly what ended up being printed. 

GIGO: Garbage in garbage out. 

GIGO: Goodshit in goodshit out. 

All you need to change your life is to change your thoughts. Anyone who has accomplished anything great, good or bad in life is all a reflection of their thoughts. Nothing more and nothing less. 

If you are reading this on your iphone, it was Steve Jobs idea. If you are sitting on a chair, that chair was someone's idea. If you are listening to music, that song was someone's idea. We are living in the world of ideas where they manifest when thought about for long enough. 

Now see your life and realize that the things you have a hard time dealing with are the things you have a negative attitude about. Remember that thoughts are invisible but they are responsible for creating everything that's visible around us. 

So what is the mirror of your life reflecting? 

If there is an area of your life that's now working out, relationships, money or health, ask yourself, what do I believe about this that has brought in my life such results?

"You might not be able to change other people but what you actually want to change is your own destiny." -Ankush Modawal

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How to make your dreams come true

"The only thing less scarier than not living your dreams is to actually live them." -Ankush Modawal

To be honest, my main goal in life when I was 21 was to get married to my ex-girlfriend, get a steady paying job and just live my life like an average Joe.

Well, just so it happens, I didn't know at that time that when we start settling in our lives for shit and let our potential that God gave us go untapped and untouched, the Universe personally sees to it and arranges a swift kick in the pants for you.

That's a wake up call for us, almost everyone gets it. And it hurts.

Now this ass kicking can come in the form of ending of a relationship, bankruptcy, death of a very dear one, a health issue that your mind has to overcome, in any case, it isn't pretty at first.

"I've got good news and bad news for you. The good news is, God gave you a very unique gift. The bad news is, if you are just wasting it, life's not gonna stop kicking your ass until you start sharing your talents." -Ankush Modawal

So when everything in my life that I thought I cared about was destroyed and I when I thought I was left with nothing, I thought to myself, fuck it. I am gonna dedicate my life to the things I am passionate about and the people who really care about me, not the things that are acceptable to society or the people who I thought cared about me as much as I thought they did.

So then, I set for myself goals that were utterly 'impossible' for me at the time I set them. Things that were my life time goals, I made them into the things I wanted to attract or manifest in my life in the next 10 years!

All I can say is that I have exhausted the exhaustive list of goals I had.

The last one I ticked off a few days ago was to attract a particular imported car I had in mind. But there were only 3 cars of that sort to my knowledge all over India! People who know me already know that the car I am talking about is one of the most iconic cars of all times, it's the MKIV Toyota Supra with the 2JZ-GTE engine.

The iconic Mark IV Toyota Supra 

Most importantly, it was the car's engine that I loved the most. The 2JZ-GTE is one mighty engine that's so awesome that I think it was forged by the Gods!

Well, long story short, I had loved that aspect of the car so much that the Universe just had to give it to me, so here it is. The Lexus GS300 with 2JZ-GTE, Vertex edition. My first imported car and a purebred Japanese monster, just like Godzilla :)

My Japanese Monster :)

Now I didn't get the Supra, but honestly, I got a car that suits my needs right now more than the Supra would have. So remember, you might not get what you had originally asked for but if you keep the intention of your goals as 'this' or something better, you give the Universe a chance to bring you an even better surprise! What a deal.

The adventure I had to attract this beautiful monster of a car in my life is just magic in itself and a story for another time. Keep in mind that Lexus isn't even in India right now, it's super rare, super fast and turns heads everywhere it goes, and the thing I had on my original goal list was to attract an imported car.

So, what I want you to take away from this little story I have shared with you is that number 1, don't waste your life on bullshit. 2, think about what's important for you and become courageous enough to go after it. 3, have goals that make you sweat. 4, remove people who don't give a fuck about your feelings, time and energy. 5, enjoy, relax and have fun.

"Make your dreams bigger and scarier than your fears." -Ankush Modawal

When setting your goals and praying, remember that you are working with the same energy that's not just making this gazillion ton planet move around the sun, but also is responsible for the other shit flying around everywhere!

It's like a very ginormous, extremely happy and super intelligent cosmic baby was playing and flung around colors, balls and other toys around in a perfect symphony. So what you consider big is just as big to the Universe as the speck of dust on your shoe. The mind that creates the ant or an elephant is the same, just different designs.

So ask for anything but make sure your goals and prayers help at least 2 people without hurting anyone else. That is my golden rule.

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Why are some people lucky and have it easy while most have to struggle – The crazy thing about Law of Attraction and avoid this biggest mistake

I used to think that life was really unfair. I used to go crazy thinking about why most people have to struggle their whole lives away for only a few moments of peace and success while others, who don’t worry, toil or struggle seem to get everything that they want. I’m sure you know someone who’s lucky as a horse shoe!

WTF! WHY?

If you have ever pondered on this question like me, then let me tell you that from whatever I have learned in life and written my books on, I have found one crucial distinction between those who get what they want and those who don’t.

The answer might shock you because when I found out the answer, I was flabbergasted. Believe me the answer was so simple and easy that I thought I had made a mistake. It was so simple that I couldn't believe it.

The next question that popped up in my head was that if it’s so easy, why doesn't everyone follow this concept?

That’s when I found the reason rearing its ugly head and staring straight into my eyes.

We as humans have a terrible need to complicate things, I too was guilty of having this terrible need to over complicate, over think and overdo things. It's because it was so easy and simple is precisely the reason it's so hard to believe in.

The people who seem to have all the luck in the world believe that they can get what they want. They don’t get lost in the struggle. They don’t doubt themselves. They don’t care what others think. They just make a decision and go for it. 

Simple, Right?

You would be surprised as to how many people don’t follow this simple concept. They just keep on struggling like the proverbial donkey and carrot on the stick. There is a lot of movement, noise and motion but never much progress.

Here’s the reason, struggle creates more struggle and ease create more ease! 

That’s why when one thing goes wrong, everything starts going wrong and when one thing goes right, everything begins going right. That’s why the rich become richer and the poor become poorer. 

That’s why some actors, models, singers, salespeople etc. attract more good work and clients to themselves even though they already have more than enough work! Whatever you are focused on and give energy mentally to grows!

The craziest thing about Law of Attraction is that the Universe does not give a flying rat’s ass about what you believe in.

There are people who don’t even believe that the Law of Attraction exists and then the Law of Attraction goes ahead and proves to them that it doesn't exist. The Law of Attraction just says that no matter what you believe in, it will make it come true for you.

So if you believe in the Law of Attraction and if you meet someone who doesn't  NEVER EVER try to convince that person that Law of Attraction works or exists. The truth is if that person doesn't believe in it, the Universe will have given so much proof, evidence and manifestations to them that in most cases, they have a better case than yours and you will lose that argument.

Give up your need to be right and prove others wrong, you'll save yourself a lot of trouble. 

Also, here’s another law of the Universe. What you resist against always persists. When you fight against something, you are actually giving it more power and attention to anything is what keeps it alive.

“You will always attract and keep in your life the things you love or hate deeply.” –Ankush Modawal

So if you believe that struggle is good for the soul or that success requires hard work, guess what the Law of Attraction will bring to you before you can get success?

BUT, here’s the thing.

People get so lost in their struggle and become so frustrated in the achievement of what they want that they mess things up even more. It’s an endless cycle, until you open your own eyes to a greater and a better truth about how life works.

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A miracle story: Feng shui and finding gold

Since I am a Feng Shui practitioner and know the importance of keeping our surroundings clean, I began cleaning my home on the 15th of October.

The story begins on the 22nd of October, right on the next day of my mom’s birthday. Since it was Navratris, which is an auspicious time for Indians, I usually clean my home at this time of the year.

We donate whatever has been unused for a long time, fix whatever is broken and buy new stuff. Also, since it’s Diwali on the 13th of November, I wanted my home to be as clean as possible before the festival of lights.

So, on the morning of 22nd October, when I asked my mom for what needs cleaning, she gave me a box full of her old sewing kits.

Sewing and knitting were once one of my mom’s hobbies. But since she didn’t feel any inclination to pursue it anymore, she felt that it was finally time to part ways the thread rolls, needles and the hundreds of buttons that she had collected over God knows how many years.

As I sat with her on the table, I began sorting out everything. My mom was a bit nostalgic and on some level even sentimental because once all this stuff meant a lot to her, and now it was all going to go away. It happens sometimes that you feel sad, when it’s time to say goodbye to your old things, even if they don’t serve you anymore.

Occasionally, whenever I saw something that might be of value, I asked my mom if we should keep it. Since she was more attached to this stuff but had made a decision to let it go, I thought I would make it easier for her and finish this work as quickly as possible.

“When we let go of the old and familiar, the universe gives us the new and exciting.” –Ankush Modawal

While I was going through the button box, I found a men’s suit button which was quite unique. It had etchings like usually only gold cufflinks or jewellery does. I immediately asked my mom about it.

She looked at it casually and told me, “I don’t remember this one but it resembles one of the gold buttons that your grandfather had given to your father on our marriage.”

I was like, oh alright, cool.

Until she said, “There were 4 gold buttons and we only have 3 now, one of them got lost years ago.”

My mind, instincts and intuition all became active in an instant.

I thought to myself, what if this button that I am holding right now was the same one that got lost?

I asked my mom the question that was on my mind, she was skeptical in her answer. But I insisted.

My lizard brain was telling me that what I was holding right now was made of gold.

“So if this button matches the 3 others that you have, then what will you have to say about me?” I asked her.

She laughed.

"There is a very slim chance that this is the same one."

"But what if it does turn out to be real gold?" I asked. 

“I will say that I raised a genius, with super powers and a complete miracle worker,” mom said unmoved.

My mom is one tough cookie. So getting an opportunity to prove something to her was delicious! It was more like a challenge.

Every son and daughter wants to prove to their parents that they raised a gem of a person, and I was going to prove to her that she raised solid gold!

I said, “Fine, let’s see those other 3 buttons and I am damn sure that this one will match them.”

She said, “I would love to but they are in the bank locker and I don’t have time to go there today.”

My heart sank a little but my spirit was already soaring.

“When can we go then?”

“Hmmm, Thursday looks good, 25^th.”

This was the conversation I had with her on the 22nd. Today is the 25th and I went with mum to the bank lockers and as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words.

After so many years, the Gold button is finally reunited with it's family! =D

Now some of you may feel that I just got lucky or that it’s good fortune, luck or fate or destiny. But miracles happen to people every day. I know that because too many things that don’t make any sense, defy logic or aren't practical have happened in my own life.

I have seen many miracles happen in the lives of my readers as well and they happen on a daily basis.

This is just one of the crazy stories I am sharing with you because I want you to live a good life. If you haven’t already read my books (especially the Black Books and the Gold Book), make sure you do because you would be doing yourself a huge favor. Understanding how life, this Universe and miracles work is paramount to living the life of your dreams.

It’s my job as an author to give you as much knowledge as I can and your job to make sure you read it. If you found this little incident that happened in my life inspiring then do share it with your loved ones as well.

Life’s good, God is great. See you soon!

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How to heal the regrets of the dark past, once and for all, for good

Everyone has some memory that they would like to delete from their mind. Maybe it’s something you wish had happened or maybe it’s something you wish shouldn't have.

In any case, feelings of shame, guilt, anger, betrayal, loneliness, helplessness, hopelessness, revenge, sadness or any other negative emotion is normal.

I have been there. 

People who used to say shit like, “It doesn't matter, get over it, etc,” I used to want to kill them with my bare hands! I felt like nobody understood me.

Until the day I could not bear the pain anymore, I decided to face my demons head on and the insights I found sorted out my issues completely.

Is the wall really moving or is it just your mind that's making it up?

"It is not the incident itself but how we see it as with which we make our lives Heaven or Hell." -Ankush Modawal

Case # 1

If it’s the painful truth you got to know regarding someone from that very person:

Be grateful, that he/she told you something very intimate. Just like a smart person doesn't go about advertising their feelings because the market isn't always ready, be glad enough that you are special enough to know the truth.

I know, truth sucks and we have our own versions of how life should be. But we don’t get the simple fact that life is beautiful. Just like a seed, takes time to grow into a tree, maybe whatever is happening or has happened is just a tiny step for you to become what you want to be.

Case # 2

If you got to know something about someone from someone else:

"When someone lies to us, it's for two reasons only, either they are saving themselves by lying or are saving you from the truth." -Ankush Modawal

Ask yourself, these questions:

a). Do you trust the person who told you this? 

b). Are there others who could validate this?

c). Is the person in question here deceptive by nature?

d). Does he/she lie often?

e). Do you suspect there is more to this than meets the eye?

f). Does this person bring you down?

g). Is this person unreliable?

If the answers to most of these questions are yes, then there is a pretty high chance that this person is toxic.

If he/she matters a lot to you, you can try to confront them but if you are then constantly met with denial, it is best you both part ways for your own sake.

"Don't try to fix another's life so much so much so that it fucks up yours." -Ankush Modawal

However, if there is a genuine problem, try to help them as much as you can and encourage them to be kind to themselves and others.

Case #3

When you can’t change what happened:

Whatever happened wasn't that glamorous anyway as much as we dramatize it in our minds. Our own imagination can become our greatest enemy by conjuring up images that will only lower our self esteem. While we cannot change what happened, we can change how we think about it.

Realize that just like you were a very different person one year ago or two years ago, the same is the case with everyone. They might also have not known you at that point of time so it’s irrational to blame them or yourself.

“A single idea is enough to change your perception about anything.” –Ankush Modawal

You are always going to be dealing with your mind. The more you think about something, the more alive that idea becomes. So what you are actually seeking refuge from is your own imagination. A change of perception or perspective is required. 

There are a lot of sides to a single story and if that story hurts, then you are probably looking at it the wrong way. Communication and listening is the key here. 

Everyone involved should be allowed to speak in a calm and peaceful manner. Feelings should be allowed to be expressed with compassion and composure.

4 or 3 or both, who's right?

“Whatever happened might be painful, but the extent you suffer would be the exact amount of time you think about it.” –Ankush Modawal

Also remember that time heals everything. If anything that bothers you happened recently, give yourself time, permission to cry and get it out of your system.

Case # 4

If it’s you who did something horribly wrong and seek comfort in your present:

A lot of people refuse to feel guilt or shame so if you are one of those nice people, who do feel bad over hurting others consciously or unconsciously, know that nobody is perfect. The first to accept his/her mistake is the wisest and the most peaceful.

I hereby pronounce you, forgiven!

Given the circumstances you faced, the person you were, the company you kept at that time or your upbringing, there are a lot more things that could have led up to what you regret. The answer is always love and lies in to seek the forgiveness of others or oneself.

"In every painful situation, either something needs to be forgotten or someone needs to be forgiven." -Ankush Modawal

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10 Tips to More Confidence

Confidence is universally attractive. It is an ability that comes easily to a person who has a Lamborghini parked in his mansion, someone who has loving relationships or is in perfect health and shape. But you might not have the former mentioned things and they are neither required for you to become confident in yourself. 

Follow the ten tips mentioned below and see how differently the world will react to you then.

"The world either stops and make way or goes with the person who knows where he is going." -Ankush Modawal

1) Speak: Communicate your thoughts. People are not psychics (some of us are), but most aren't. Let others know what you are thinking and what's on your mind.

2) B +ve: There is way too much negativity in this world as it is, so be positive and you will instantly separate yourself from the crowd.

3) Initiate: Too many people procrastinate just out of the fear of failure. Be the fountainhead of the change you wish to see. This is the most important quality of the people who win.

4) Body Language: Stand up straight. Smile. That's about it.

5) Grooming: Get a haircut. Shave. Cut your nails. Look your best and be the type of person others would want to be seen with.

6) Clothing: God might have given you your body shape and height but you always have the choice to wear what suits you best. Whether you are blessed with a good physique or not, wear clothes that compliment your body and not those who compete with it!

7) Scent: Out of all the senses, the nose is what triggers memories the fastest in us. Everyone remembers the smell of the mud in the rain, walking past a bakery or a barbecue joint. Every man and a woman must have a perfume that accentuates your presence.

8) Thinking: You become what you think about and you attract what you think about. So think about what you think about.

9) Help: Only those who have compassion for others can have compassion for themselves. Helping others sends a powerful message to your subconscious that you have enough for yourself of what you have given to others. That's how you attract back to you what you give.

10) Relax: Stress kills, nobody has ever died of chilling out yet. A freaked out person doesn't inspire confidence so learn to remain calm and peaceful. 

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